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did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•summer fling's over. decided to do something productive, so I got an apartment in Seoul and signed up for a Korean course.
6·4 days agoand for bingsu & tteokbokki🥵🥵🥵
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•that’s why it’s just a summer fling
41·9 days agothis isn’t about relationships tho. it’s about having fun without commitment, which can also be 2-way. for example, my fling and i are keeping each other entertained without the expectation of anything serious.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•that’s why it’s just a summer fling
43·9 days agonah, relegating a woman’s expression of libertinage, vanity, or playful detachment to the realm of “inceldom” is deeply puritanical. it suggests that women aren’t allowed to be chaotic, selfish, or purely driven by the ego-boost of the chase. it assumes women must only want wholesome, committed love & be passive, relationship-seeking partners
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•that’s why it’s just a summer fling
62·9 days agothe concept of a female perspective meme about libertinage being an incel meme…
the only angle i see in which it could be seen that way is if you think all women are puritanical prudes, which is misogynistic. ironic.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•after summer's over i'm getting my life together & stabilizing, i promise
6·12 days agoi’m in my feels today
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation
91·16 days agowe’re on a boat which is an ideal location to be perpetually nude (sunbathing, swimming, no need to go anywhere else, etc.)
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•he might be using me to fulfill his younger woman fantasy, but I’m also using him to fulfill my daddy fantasy, so we’re even
0·1 month agoI actually thought about this. I don’t think when I’m 50 I’ll be into older men anymore, since what I consider “older men” now would either be around my age or just old-old men, lmao.
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the experiences of boys and girls in society aren’t comparable.
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this post is about girls, going “but what about the boys?” on it is just misogyny.
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cause traditionally/stereotypically feminine things are seen as stupid, useless, and cringe while masculine ones are seen as serious, deep, and respectable.
trans people also show that being a man is seen as an “upgrade” while being a woman a “downgrade” (trans men don’t get a fraction of the hate trans women do). same thing with tomboys-femboys.
plus, a man and woman could do the exact same thing (being assertive for example) & the perception will be different (woman - bitch, man - boss).
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•belt tight around my neck being pulled back hard in doggy >>>
0·1 month agodisclaimer: any activity involving choking should not be taken lightly.
a collar and leash is also way safer than a belt.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
0·1 month agomy guess: for men, even little things such as seeing boobs (especially in real life) is “taboo”/exciting. so their idea of “perverted” is pretty tame.
for me: intense, heavy fullness and a deep, rhythmic pressure in the pelvis + indirect hitting of vaginal nerve endings from behind (A-spot).
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•back on Lemmy after a month away, it feels like coming home🫶
0·1 month agofinding men is easy. I could have a new one every day without putting in any effort if I wanted to. besides, I’m not looking for anything serious right now, I’ve just been having fun and enjoying a few flings since my breakup.
did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOPto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•back on Lemmy after a month away, it feels like coming home🫶
0·1 month agohahaha, no. the trip ended and we parted ways. and they weren’t Vietnamese, lol. I actually didn’t even fuck any locals while I was traveling, the bodyguard duo kept me dicked down well enough.
I do have a new man now, though, and let’s just say I’m currently living my daddy fantasy. not gonna expand on it for now because I know people on here are gonna flame me for it, lmao.🫣

love my men as hairy as possible so i stand with her, not shaved for me too💖