• SaraTonin@lemmy.world
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    15 hours ago

    Is It just be that loathes the word “autist”? Gives me real “Oriental” or “the blacks” vibes

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      9 hours ago

      In my experience living with an autistic husband and having working with many autistic people, they don’t mind the word at all and use it themselves.

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        2 hours ago

        As an autistic person with several autistic family members, friends, and associates, I’ve never met someone who used it or liked it

        Perhaps it’s a US vs UK thing? I’ve only seen US and Canadian people use it, in the same way that I’ve only seen US people use the term “blacks“ when referring to black people

        It has that connotation to me. And the fact that it’s the term of choice to use as an insult in places like 4chan and other edgelord spaces doesn’t help

        Seems like it’s one of those things like “autistic person be ”person with autism“ where there’s no consensus within the community