• did_you_find_violets@lemmy.worldOP
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    10 days ago

    the concept of a female perspective meme about libertinage being an incel meme…

    the only angle i see in which it could be seen that way is if you think all women are puritanical prudes, which is misogynistic. ironic.

    • ☭SaltyIcetea☭@lemmy.ml
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      10 days ago

      nah they got a point, thats the typa post id expect to see on 4chan right before they invent a new slur that no one will ever use

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        10 days ago

        nah, relegating a woman’s expression of libertinage, vanity, or playful detachment to the realm of “inceldom” is deeply puritanical. it suggests that women aren’t allowed to be chaotic, selfish, or purely driven by the ego-boost of the chase. it assumes women must only want wholesome, committed love & be passive, relationship-seeking partners